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daisyboo
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yep i defo know what you mean kath. sooty is still a big hole in my life i don't think i'll ever have a cat quite like him.
they are all different but i miss him purring his head off in bed, he always looked at steve like sh.., think he was trying to tell me something lol.
he was the gentlest soul ive ever known. ian there will be loads of his lil quirks you remember with fondness, but sadly at the mo its just raw pain.
i can remember him and smile now, but going to bed since he passed has never been the samexxxxxxxx
take care and take each day as it comes, love to you and your furriesxxxx
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marble,summer and sooty your in my heart foreverxxxxxx
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pokbg
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Oh Ian... it's so hard... the saying goes to "get over a loss"... but no-one ever get over it... time just makes it easier... but it will always be there.
Blessed little Bola... what a little sweetie he is.
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Ian B
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| yep i defo know what you mean kath. sooty is still a big hole in my life i don't think i'll ever have a cat quite like him. |
I thought that about Black Tom, and even tho' Beckett was very different, he was on the same level as BT.
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they are all different but i miss him purring his head off in bed, he always looked at steve like sh.., think he was trying to tell me something lol.
he was the gentlest soul ive ever known. ian there will be loads of his lil quirks you remember with fondness, but sadly at the mo its just raw pain. |
It's his headbutt greetings I miss most, especially at night, tho' I can't say I was overly impressed when he woke me in the early hours doing it to let me know he'd come home  It's more anger at the way his life ended atm, accidental or not, it's no way for any cat to go.
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i can remember him and smile now, but going to bed since he passed has never been the samexxxxxxxx
take care and take each day as it comes, love to you and your furriesxxxx |
The good memories will outlast the painful ones, that I do know 
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| Oh Ian... it's so hard... the saying goes to "get over a loss"... but no-one ever get over it... time just makes it easier... but it will always be there. |
Yeah, things will get better, it's not quite as bad now tbh, but this will last a while yet.
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| Blessed little Bola... what a little sweetie he is. |
Only some of the time, he's a bloody nuisance most of it
It's strange, Beckett and Bola used to sleep on my bed at night, but for the past few nights it's been Fudge and Bola  Considering it wasn't that long ago she couldn't bear to be near him, this is nice to see. They don't curl up together like Beckett and Bola, but it wouldn't surprise me to see that happen soon.
Ian
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Kaz
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Hi Ian,
Just wanted to say I was lucky enough to have all my cats buried in my garden, well the last ones that died since I've lived here, which unfortunately has been 5 in 12 years. Although you obviously never forget them, I have had moments when I'm at the bottom of the garden where 4 of them are buried that I'm overwhelmed with memories and feel so sad, at the same time it is a comfort to know they're remains are near by. Mostly though it's your special memories of them that make you smile. Black Tom and Beckett sounded like such wonderful cats they're always be with you.
Bola will help heaps, just being there, I know having another cat or cats to think about helps, my thoughts are with you. x
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Ian B
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Hi Kaz,
Thank you.
Yeah, Bola will keep me on my toes that's for sure, and Fudge will just carry on being herself.
Ian
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Ian B
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The confirmation that Beckett has been cremated has just arrived..........damn, that's put a damper on the day 
Ian
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Teddy
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But Ian you don't have to wonder if it's been done now, have a good cry and remember him and think back on all the laughs he gave you and the times you were cursing him, just hold on to your memories. x
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Prince
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Oh Ian, that is a sad start to the day, but like Kath says, now you know.
Please dont let it ruin your whole day, get down the pub later for your Saturday Bevvy and remember all the good times and of course his naughty annoying irritating little sod times. xx
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